Changing the oil won't hurt anything...10W30 works well, I like straight 30W, too. 40W won't hurt, but I think it's a bit "thick" for start-up..And I'd bet the 40W really won't make much difference, as far as your oil pressure goes...But sometimes it does...Pretty "wishy-washy", huh...?
Now, does it sound like most all of the lifters are clicking...? Anyway, find the ones that do and adjust them a bit more...
Unless your sure you have a full-flow oil set-up, this oil pressure you have is what you get...You didn't change the pump while it was apart...?