It's the angle... it's the angle...
I've installed three of these and no two were the same. Packard Farm exhausts are great, but on one of my cars, I still had to take it in to the muffler shop to have the angle modified slightly.
Here's a tip: Take the manifold exhaust pipe (or a short spare piece of exhaust pipe)
that has a flange on it and mate it up to the exhaust manifold. Do this without any physical restrictions like the engine side pans being mounted in place... Just move it around until the doughnut fits the BEST WAY between the pipe flange and the manifold opening. You might be surprised at what angle it mates at. This gives you an idea of what angle the first couple of bends on your exhaust pipe need to be at.
Sounds simplistic, but it was an eye-opener for me. Before that I used to burn out my doughnut gaskets about every 1,000 miles or so.
And, yes, ALWAYS use anti-seize on your bolts.