understood...
I would take the plain steel bolts you bought from McM and put them in the head and see how much sticks out hte other side. Measure the protrusion, and minus 1/16 to 1/8 for gasket crush thickness. as long as you are close to 3/4" i would not blink and eye. I would install and use. all you need is to secure the head to the block and crush the gasket to seal it up :) if they are short then get some 4 1/4" long ones (see below)
the original bolts were not graded, and the bolts of today are far superior.
A Grade 5 bolt has a Tensile Strength: 120,000 psi minimum, so you are more likely to strip/ rip the threads out of the cast iron block BEFORE you destroy the bolt. you are only tightening to 70-75 ft lb !!
Make sure you tighten the head bolts per the sequence in the manual, i did mine in 3 steps. 35, 55, 70 !! each one in order then next torque
4 1/4" long plain grade 5 bolts
https://www.fastenal.com/product/details/122204 1/4" long yellow zinc grade 8 bolts
https://www.fastenal.com/product/details/15220 (most grade 8 are yellow zinc, typically makes them easy to id, plus the head marking)