You have three points of concern.
1. As suggested/advised above, the washers will help the seal increase in diameter/circumference to seal the tube. I have realized good results by using a suitable "O" ring instead of cork here.
2. The cork seal must fit against a smooth surface and must be adjusted by the number of gaskets it takes to move the bell up and down using the method suggested in the manual. Firm but not tight. You do this by trial (again with up and down) hand pressure against the tube of the bell.
3. Mostly already covered in "2" above but is used to seal the flange so that oil doesn't leal where the flange surface meets the rear of the transmission housing. Don't crush the cork.
Good luck with it.
Best,
Charlie