I will jump in on the temp sending unit question. Yes, you will need a different unit.
The one for an idiot light is simply a grounding switch that turns on when things get too hot.
The one for a gauge is a variable resistor that changes with temperature.
Sorry but I cannot help with the vacuum gauge hookup and mounting specifically. Typically the nuts are related to mounting the gauge. Normally there is a flat strap u-shaped bracket with 2 holes. The ends of the u fit on the backside of the hole in the dash or mounting plate.
Like this:
Vacuum Gauge MountNot sure what line was used in a '66 Impala.